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Balance? Who Holds Your Hand

by Eileen McDargh, Chief Energy Officer - Tuesday, May 27, 2014
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I am holding the hand of Max, my 16 year-old neighbor, a sweet surfer young man and academic scholar (not mutually exclusive). He gave me the excellent advice on how to buy and use a GoPro camera for my March Baja whale adventure.

Alas, I failed to listen to his best advice about putting a “floatie” on the camera when it was thrust under the water to capture the Pacific gray whales.  I decided at the last minute to listen to one of the “adults”— a nuclear expert who had many cameras with him. The GoPro vanished in 100 plus feet of water the first time it was used.

Lesson? Yes! Sometimes what makes our life work is our willingness to listen to younger voices. Just as I needed Max’s hand to steady me on this rolling Indo board, I should have used his advice to steady me in using the camera. We can get thrown off our “board” or lost at sea without opening our minds to advice of many. Next time, Max—I am listening to you!

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Since beginning her consulting and training practice in 1980, Eileen has become noted for her ability to speak the truth with clarity, wisdom, humor and compassion. Long-standing clients and repeat engagements attest to her commitment to make a difference in minds, hearts and spirits of organizations and individuals. She draws upon practical business know-how, life's experiences and years of consulting to major national and international organizations that have ranged from global pharmaceuticals to the US Armed Forces, from health care associations to religious institutions. Executive Excellence magazine selected her as one of the top 100 thought leaders in leadership and among the top ten consultant providers of leadership development.

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