

EILEEN MCDARGH'S
Resiliency Report
Published monthly and when the mood strikes.

Update from Eileen
This isn’t what you usually expect from my ezine. However, I can’t ignore the cruel actions of this government that would vanish the records of incredibly resilient men and women who made a gigantic impact on the nation I call home.
So, you can expect this month’s ezine to be filled with stories of just such people.
Let me start with a story closest to home and my heart. Recently, the Pentagon instructed Arlington National Cemetery to scrub dozens of pages on gravesites and educational materials that include the histories of prominent black, Hispanic, and female service members buried in the cemetery to meet the Trump/Hegseth orders.
Before January, the website included lists of prominent Black people and famous women buried at Arlington. While the individual graves still turn up on website searches, lists grouping the dead by race or gender do not. The webpage citing “Notable Graves” had subsections, including one for African Americans. The link to the list has been taken down. Famous Black Americans buried at Arlington include Supreme Court Justice Thurgood Marshall, Secretary of State and Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Colin Powell, champion boxer Joe Louis, assassinated civil rights activist Medgar Evers, and several Tuskegee Airmen — the first group of Black combat pilots in World War II.
I know you, my reader, will recognize the names of these amazing men. But let me tell you of some of the women who were also erased: the Women Airforce Service Pilots in WWII—the WASP.
Mom was a WASP, one of the 1,076 women who flew for the military in WWII. The women had three missions: tow targets for gunnery practice with live ammunition, ferry planes from coast to coast, and test planes as they came off the assembly lines. Mom was a test pilot, earning the same silver wings that male cadets earned, but with a few exceptions.
Women in the WASP program were required to have a pilot’s license already, whereas male cadets were not. They also had to cover their expenses, including travel to the base, food, and uniforms—costs that male cadets did not have to pay. Despite these challenges, the WASP underwent the same rigorous training as the male cadets, living in barracks on the airbase, participating in drilling exercises, and more.
Collectively, these women flew over 60 million air miles of domestic military duty, flying every plane in the U.S. arsenal. It was not without hazard—39 were killed in the course of duty, but because Congress refused to consider them official military, there were no benefits. In at least one case, Mom said they passed the hat to send the body home to the parents.
Mom and her sister pilots were sure of one thing: they loved their country and would die for it.
There is so much more to the story. But for now, the tragedy that gender and race disqualify the efforts and service of so many is a mockery to this nation. And considering that it comes from a President who has never served, doesn’t want any wounded soldiers on the same stage, and calls prisoners of war (like John McCain) losers, I rest my case.
But wait, there’s more.
The Army website has scrubbed all mention of The Nisei "Go For Broke" WWII unit. It was the 442nd Regimental Combat Team and the 100th Infantry Battalion. This was the most decorated combat unit in history, composed almost entirely of second-generation American soldiers of Japanese ancestry known as Nisei.
The WASP and the Nisei were finally awarded the Congressional Gold Medal in 2010. But now—let us erase them from memory. Destroying history is a significant crime against humanity.
I challenge you, my readers, to tell these stories. They dared to fight for this nation. Let’s see if we can follow their lead.



Navajo Code Talkers
I just found out that the Navajo Code Talkers' information has also been erased from military websites. From 1942 to 1945, the Code Talkers were key to every major operation of the Marine Corps in the Pacific Theater.
The Code Talkers were Indigenous Americans who used codes based on their native languages to transmit messages that the Axis Powers never cracked. The Army recognized the ability of tribal members to send coded language in World War I and realized the codes could not be easily interpreted in part because many Indigenous languages had never been written down.
The Army expanded the use of Code Talkers in World War II, using members of 34 different tribes in the program. Indigenous Americans always enlisted in the military in higher proportions than any other demographic group—in World War II, more than a third of non-disabled Indigenous men between 19 and 50 joined the service—and the participation of the Code Talkers was key to the invasion of Iwo Jima, for example, when they sent more than 800 messages without error.
OK, dear readers…. Call, write, donate, protest (peacefully), and do whatever you can. Help us all reclaim this democracy.
Erasing History in the Name of DEI is Criminal
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Humor from the Past
What do you call the largest mammal that lives in a palace? The Prince of Wales.
Why did the scarecrow win an award? Because he was outstanding in his field!
Why don’t skeletons fight each other? They don’t have the guts.
How do you organize a space party? You planet.
What do you call cheese that isn’t yours? Nacho cheese!
Did you hear about the mathematician afraid of negative numbers? He’ll stop at nothing to avoid them.

Must Read Book!
To Stop a Tyrant: The Power of Political Followers to Make or Break a Toxic Leader by Ira Chaleff
I’ve known Ira Chaleff for years as a fellow author. Chaleff spent thirty years with a non-partisan organization in Washington, D.C., working to improve communication between constituents and their elected representatives. He has seen the best and worst of both Democrats and Republicans. He understands the influential role played by their staff and constituents. He will show you, too, how to make a difference. Based on his extensive experience in the political world, Ira Chaleff demonstrates that we have more power than we think. But this power must be used in timely and politically savvy ways.
My friend and colleague Dr. Marcia Reynolds writes, “Regardless of your politics, it is important we find ways to peacefully talk about the useful and the dangerous uses of power.” This book gives invaluable guidelines for civil discourse with even our relatives. Learn how to override the rationalizations people use to avoid the discomfort of facing reality and then agree on what we all want from our government to keep us safe without taking away our freedoms.


About Eileen
If you are looking for a unique keynote speaker in resiliency, a facilitator for executive retreats, a speech coach or an emcee/moderator, then you want to work with Eileen McDargh, CSP, CPAE. Eileen has spoken for audiences as large as 15,000 and facilitated groups as small as 18! She is the author of seven books and other products that you can find in her online store. The British Research firm of Global Gurus ranked her #4 among the top 30 communication gurus worldwide. Why not hire Eileen for your next event?


Ranked 3rd in Communications
This is the 7th year in a row that I have been ranked in the top 5 in communication. Global Gurus surveys some 26,000 business professionals to determine rankings plus professionals also vote.
Dear Friends,
It’s that time of year again to vote for Global Gurus in various categories. I’ve been in the top 5 of Communication Gurus for many years. Global Gurus is a British research firm that goes out to some 20,000 people to determine standing.
Click below to nominate me as inspirational. It might ask you to log in using either Linked in or Google. You are asked to log in to assure people can only vote once. You’ll then see my face pop up along with other nominees. Select and then near the bottom, you can rank me as “inspirational ”or not.
Please let me know if this works. You are all the best.
Many thanks. I am most grateful for YOU!!!!!

